I am so sorry for your loss. My mother was Margaret (Thiessen) Flaming who passed away in 2010. I remember when Harold, Barbara, Michael, Margaret, and Mary came to our house when we were kids. Mary was probably about 4 yrs old (?) I guess John wasn't born yet. You may not remember coming out to our place on the farm. That probably was the last and only time I have seen the kids but I know I have seen Harold and Barbara a few times more.It looks like Harold was about 2 yrs younger than my mom so I just had to leave a note from our part of the family. (I am the oldest, then Norma, Ray, and Christine) Hugs and love to all the family. Jo Ann Davis